GOd dammit. About the fifth person this week who says to my father-in-law, while I'm in the room, "oh did you have a kid!? which was it?? Oh a boy! oh you're so lucky, finally a boy" (implying that it's good that he has a boy grandson because a boy can be heir to the company, a girl wouldn't be able to or would have to marry someone to take over with an arranged marriage). This is fucked on multiple levels, as you will surely agree. Juice and I have to ignore shit like this daily.